Geez man, am I angry! I'm so damned mad, my caveman o meter is pegged at destroy! I am married to a woman who is mentally ill. Has been now for 18+ years. I get it aint her fault but does that give her the right to make me as insane as she is?!?! After 12 years, it finally hit me that she was never going back to who she was when we married. I spiralled down into a black depression, compounded when I severely torqued my spine, in fact I did it so bad my MD thought I'd had scoliosis since birth...